On the weekend I didn’t just go skiing. I brought heat to a frozen world. And trust me nobody stayed cold around me.

Usually, my clients arrive with a touch of trepidation about my aesthetic. "You... wear a lot of leather," they’ll venture, usually toward the end of a session. I simply smile. It isn't just a fashion choice; it’s a declaration.

The Radical Bridge: Why My Work Is About So Much More Than "Sex"

Is synthetic really the winter king, or is leather just misunderstood? Let’s dive into the breakdown and why choosing real leather is a radical act of sustainability.

Helping your partner isn’t the problem; it’s the intent and the energy behind it. In a power-exchange dynamic, being an "assistant" is only an issue when it’s done from a place of subordinate weakness.

Seriously. How many times have you looked at that one destination you want to visit, that specific activity you’ve been dying to try, or even that one piece of leather clothing you’ve added to your cart five times but never bought? You look, you linger, and then… you do nothing. You tell yourself that dreaming is enough. But without a plan and a moment of courage, "dreaming" is just a polite word for scrolling. I have been where you are, watching people do things I haven't da

I am currently perched in the eye of a silent storm. From the lounge at from the lounge at Copenhagen Airport, I’m watching the snow drift past the massive glass panes, a stark contrast to the warmth of my black tea with lemon and honey. The lounge is surprisingly spacious, featuring several distinct areas. Naturally, I've chosen the most business-like section. Why? The leather chairs, even from a distance, looked like t he most comfortable and suitable furniture for me to

Every January, we perform the same ritual. We treat our lives like a broken machine, trying to "fix" parts of ourselves, -5kg here, a few drinks there, more gym visits, less work, more date nights, less arguing, or better communication, better work-life balance. We treat life like a scale, a constant, exhausting negotiation where "Work" and "Life" are at war. But lines in the sand are easily washed away by the tide of old habits. If your perspective doesn't change, you won't

Let’s face it: a full leather outfit is probably not the first thing that comes to mind when you think of Egypt. Yet, leather and Cairo actually share a deep, historical bond that made my wardrobe choice feel like an obvious tribute rather than just a fashion statement. The Connection: Cairo and Leather You might be surprised to learn that Egypt is home to one of the oldest leather-working traditions in the world. For millennia, Cairo has been a hub for tanning; even today, t

What type of relationship do you choose to have?

When you recognize the mirror effect, you gain an invaluable shield: you can choose to respond with detachment or empathy, rather than absorbing the hurt and confusion intended by the projector. You stop asking, "What's wrong with me?" and start observing, "What is this person truly revealing about their own fears?"

Excitement is a Choice, Not Luck

 For the Man: Leather represents a subcultural boundary he is judged for crossing.  For the Woman: Leather represents a sexual boundary she is judged for exploiting.

For women who are naturally independent, understanding the power of that primal need to protect can open up intimacy. You can be the strong, capable partner 90% of the time, and still invite your man to be the hero occasionally.

When you wear leather, you might feel a rush, a thrill, or a profound connection to a certain fantasy or identity. This intense, personal feeling can be both exhilarating and terrifying to reveal.

It made me wonder: Why do we treat the most natural thing we do like the biggest secret?

Sexual fantasies are not dirty secrets to be hidden—they are invitations to deeper intimacy. They are opportunities to understand yourself more fully, to bring freshness to your relationship, and to create new levels of trust and pleasure.

Discovering the Power of Coaching At the beginning of this year, I decided to work with Deni_C as my coach. I had some doubts. I had just completed my coaching training a few weeks earlier and became a certified business coach. So, why would I need a coach myself? For me, it was mainly about leather fashion. I wanted to develop an inner attitude that freed me from the opinions of others regarding my appearance. Who better to explore this with than Deni_C? Her presence on the

We all have them: those secret thoughts hidden deep within our minds. If we're truly honest and open-minded, perhaps our partner knows them too. What I find fascinating about fantasies is their raw honesty. They're unique, just like us, reflecting our deepest desires and cravings without pretense. But why do we call them "fantasies" and not "reality"?

Once something is on my bucket list, I ensure it happens!

It was his achievement too. Without him, I wouldn't have been able to do it, both physically and mentally. He believed in me and equipped me with the right mindset.

Recently, during a coaching conversation with Deni, we had a stimulating exchange of thoughts. I mentioned that when I look at a...

A parcel arrived for me in the post this morning, an elongated white box that looked at a glance as though it might have contained a...

We will achieve nothing unless we invest the right energy to obtain what we want.